Several Signs That You May Have A Cheater On Your Hands

After a relationship is established, everyone hopes that both sides are faithful to each other, especially if the relationship was set up to not be an open relationship. The problem comes when one of the partners is not faithful and the other one is having suspicions to whether cheating is involved or not. There are several signs that might indicate if a partner is cheating.

Often times, when a partner starts cheating, he or she is suddenly ready to get into shape. Vigorous exercising and a healthier lifestyle to lose weight and get muscles toned again can be one of the first signs that a partner is cheating. Finding a new partner or having a flirt with someone else means for most people to get their bodies back into shape.

Next, partners that are cheating often start to find some excuses to come home late or stay out overnight all together. The “Honey, I have to work longer” excuse might appear more often and business trips are sprinkled more frequently throughout the year than ever before. Another sign that there is cheating involved is when the partner comes home from the late work day and needs to make himself instantly fresh, such as a shower, a change of cloths, new deodorant and more, to obviously cover up whatever happened.

Additionally, a woman should be worried if her partner comes home from one of the late work days or business trips and is overly interested in her day. When does it happen that after a long workday the partner comes home and does more than just east dinner and watch TV? Asking about the workday and being interested in what happened surely is not normally on the partners list after along workday. Also, even though the cheater was not asked about his whereabouts, he will give lengthy explanations and try to make it look as harmless as possible.

Additionally to these facts, it also often happens that the cheating partner calls home and he says, “just checking in”. Most often, it is the guilty conscience that makes them call “home”, but in the end, it just means that they are cheating. Another indicator might be when the woman tries to call the partner on those long nights in the office, and no one can be reached. The cell phone is also unavailable or it rings until the answering machine picks up.

On the sexual part of the relationship, when one is cheating the scale can tip either way. Some partners that cheat want to have more sex than ever, while others are not interested in sex anymore, since they already are getting what they are looking for from their other partner. If either one occurs all the sudden, it is generally one sign of cheating.

Sometimes, if the cheater is not careful enough or maybe not smart enough, they will give away their phone number. It is even easier to tell whether a partner is cheating or not because frequent phone calls will be answered with short one-sentence answers. Perhaps many “wrong numbers” come to the house, or the phone will ring just once and then he disappears to make a quick call.

These signs are especially suspicious if more than one of them occurs in a similar time range. If all of them are apparent, it is time to talk to the partner and to get it either worked out or over with. You have to get rid of suspicions and go on with life. Cheating is not fun and often, relationships plain break apart when one partner is not faithful.